tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5956663954742227032.post9113572126307237705..comments2023-06-01T11:42:16.896-04:00Comments on Where Reality & Fantasy Get Confused : (Guest Post) How Others Opinions Affected My Views On MyselfLashuntrice Bradleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06914748113024177640noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5956663954742227032.post-3026069829309566372014-05-10T18:53:04.711-04:002014-05-10T18:53:04.711-04:00Thank you so much to all of the readers and all of...Thank you so much to all of the readers and all of those who gave feedback! I haven't written anything in about 8 months, and almost gave up on writing all together. Just taking the time out to glance at my post means a lot to me!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16641526340433934369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5956663954742227032.post-51380002219343059242014-05-10T18:51:26.861-04:002014-05-10T18:51:26.861-04:00Q!!! Thank you for reading. I have been through so...Q!!! Thank you for reading. I have been through so much but like you said I turn it around the right way. I use my experiences to relate to others, and uplift, inspire, and motivate them to keep going. I'm just following the plan that God has in store for me. Although, I went through these experiences, I was still raised by phenomenal parents, grandparents, and family who kept me on the right track and taught me everything I needed to know. That's why I know it is important to love myself, but on the flip side, words and certain actions can and do hurt. I am growing everyday and learning more and more to love who I am. It's just the outer appearance I struggle with. The last sentence you wrote really stuck with me. It's so true that once you are happy with yourself, you no longer feel the need to have others to make you happy. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16641526340433934369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5956663954742227032.post-73662145820005597012014-05-10T18:44:04.113-04:002014-05-10T18:44:04.113-04:00There was a lot I wanted to write, but I had to sh...There was a lot I wanted to write, but I had to shorten it to keep the reader's attention. That's why I said I'll spare the long autobiography about my life. I had loved ones who told me I will never be sh** in life. I had friends and family who cropped me out of pictures or didn't take any with me at all just because they thought I was ugly. I was always too tall, too fat, too hairy, too much of a tomboy....It wasn't all about just men, or shall I say boys, liking me. Now that I am older, smarter, and wiser, I know what real beauty is. I also know that a man will accept me for who I am and not what I look like. (that's what separates them from the boys). Thank you for reading luv!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16641526340433934369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5956663954742227032.post-9304612480902335122014-05-10T18:39:32.362-04:002014-05-10T18:39:32.362-04:00Thanks! growing up I didn't understand much ab...Thanks! growing up I didn't understand much about love but my grandma taught me to just keep on giving it, even if its from a distance. She was the one who taught me that I have to love myself first before I can truly love anyone else too. The world is slowly losing the real meaning of love, but there are several people like us out there who will continue to spread God's love regardless.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16641526340433934369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5956663954742227032.post-27450496081927636892014-05-10T18:35:09.064-04:002014-05-10T18:35:09.064-04:00Thank you so much for reading! That is one of my g...Thank you so much for reading! That is one of my goals in life; to keep uplifting and motivating others. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16641526340433934369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5956663954742227032.post-62021424838026724992014-05-10T14:24:45.940-04:002014-05-10T14:24:45.940-04:00This is awesome, Mel! I'm so sorry that you e...This is awesome, Mel! I'm so sorry that you experienced to so much in your young life, but I'm so glad that you turned it around the right way. Instead of having a baby you couldn't afford just to find conditional love or laying down with every man that you meet, you decided that everyone else needs to get with Mel's program. I applaud that. I've never been one to conform with the norm. I've always been a leader from how I dress to even how I talk (I was teased in high school for "talking white" which is the dumbest thing I've ever heard). However, I knew that there was nothing wrong with me. It was something wrong with them. And that confidence alone won more girls over than I ever could have imagined. When people see that you don't need them to be happy then they'll find themselves wanting some of that happiness, too.Talk2Qhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00925484997009944397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5956663954742227032.post-43528917552019542942014-05-09T19:28:35.146-04:002014-05-09T19:28:35.146-04:00hi Mellie, beautiful post. i know you know what I ...hi Mellie, beautiful post. i know you know what I think already but all i will say is that since when beauty was determined by how many men want your number or want to talk to you? you know who you are inside and regardless of what the masses say or do, you are beautiful to you and to those that know what true beauty isK. Andre Danielhttp://www.anotherpointofview.netnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5956663954742227032.post-35968451781081498692014-05-09T14:17:07.407-04:002014-05-09T14:17:07.407-04:00Standing Ovation Melly unconditional love for ones...Standing Ovation Melly unconditional love for oneself is truly a key to life that nobody would ever get from anybody else but themselves because to many love is treated as a four letter word like fuck and shit when in actually it's one of the most powerful words, feelings, emotions, actions, in the world that can destroy nations, or can save the planet but it's up to humanity and I'll never lose faith in usAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04144696601682914722noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5956663954742227032.post-41507888996003695762014-05-09T09:45:49.237-04:002014-05-09T09:45:49.237-04:00Fantastic confessions indeed! Keep on inspiring.
...Fantastic confessions indeed! Keep on inspiring. <br /><br />To Your Success, <br />Stacie Walker<br />http://StacieWalker.comS. Walkerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01851684771606787338noreply@blogger.com