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Wednesday, March 31, 2010
Hit Them With The Flex
It's of a little girl hittin' them with the flex.
Sean Garrett Is Demeaning Nicki Minaj's Decision Making Skills...
Video of "Massive Attack" Coming Soon
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
Kat Stacks-- Super Head Wanna Be
Wait, there's more. Some guy in Miami heard about her and decided to create a video of his own to retaliate against this girl.
Honestly I think she's just a stupid hoe cause she's not even making any money off of her hoeing. However, she sure is receiving a lot of internet attention.
Monday, March 29, 2010
Kelis Is Back
Well, she's definitely back with a new music video. The song in the video is titled "Acapella" and the video is definitely something else.
While her music is good, Kelis has also been known for her style. Here's a look back at some of her looks over the years.
The picture above is how she looks now.
This is from when came out with the song "Milkshake." That's my favorite look on her.
Window Seat
Erykah Badu Window Seat
Sunday, March 28, 2010
Schools Lessons: The Pursuit Of Happiness
School Lesson Of The Week: You can spend your whole life pursuing happiness just to find out that you might never get it.
I went to an event today at my school. It was the "State of The Student Summit" and the speakers consisted of Cornel West, Ralph Nader, Susan Taylor, and many others. During the event one of the speakers talked about the pursuit of happiness. I think it was Ralph Nader. His words were very powerful and inspirational, but there was a problem.
Right before I left for the show I was watching the movie "The Pursuit Of Happiness." In the movie there was a part where Will Smith said something like what if it's called pursuing happiness because you can never really achieve it. That one part in the movie scared me. I don't want to spend my life making my dreams come true just to find out that they could never come true. It's bad, but because of all the bumps in the road I'm starting to realize that there is a possibility of me not reaching the goals that make me happy.
Pet Peeves/Sexy Advice: The Males Below
Pet Peeve: Men like the ones in the picture
Yes, those are men. See, they have this show on television called "Transform Me." On the show they walk around dressed like women and they give women fashion advice. They basically take a woman who looks like she works a little too much and doesn't have time to hook her looks up and then they transform her into one of them. Yes, they take the perfectly over-worked woman and turn her into a drag queen.
The fact that they turn a woman into a drag queen doesn't piss me off. What pisses me off is the fact they are men. What pisses me off even more is that they are men who feel they have to dress up as women to boss women around. You don't see the real Victoria (as in Victoria's Secret) dressing like a woman to sell merchandise, so why the hell are they doing it?
:::PSA PSA PSA::::
If you are a man who wants to give fashion advice be yourself. Don't embarrass yourself by doing the above. Don't piss me off by doing the above. Better yet, don't give me fashion advice.
Saturday, March 27, 2010
Pet Peeves/Sexy Advice: Males That Make You Look
I'm not talking about the fine or sweet guys that get your attention. I'm talking about the ones who say the stupidest things to make you look.
That's what these Sigmas did when my friend and I were at the mall today. They purposely compared two girls, but instead of just call them girls that had to say the word bitch. I heard them, but them did not look. However, my friend reacted. After they realized her reaction, they started saying more things because they knew she would react to them. She wasn't reacting in a positive way, but they were still doing it just because they had her attention.
To all the males out there, you do not have to act or talk stupidly to get our attention.
Friday, March 26, 2010
Pet Peeves/Sexy Advice: About The Mistress
I'm irritated with mistresses, but not all mistress. I'm absolutely tired of these mistresses that want to tell all their business. They act like it's cool to be the sideline hoe. They're on television giving interviews about their sex life. WHAT IN THE HELL?
Tiger Woods' wife finds out he cheats and all these hoes want to confess that they slept with him. SHUT UP.
Sandra Bullock finds out Jesse James slept with one ugly hoe and then another ugly hoe wants to confess that she also slept with Jesse James. Umm, am I missing something? Wait, no I'm not. The girl is just dumb.
Remember when Xscape came out with the song "My Little Secret?" If you don't put it back in your memory. The song is about the sideline hoe enjoying her lifestyle and keeping quiet. I blame all this mess on Karrine Steffans (aka Super Head). If she would have never thought it was cool to put all her affairs in a book, no one else would be feeling comfortable enough to confess their business.
Wednesday, March 24, 2010
The Mistress
I've been trying trying to ignore this whole Sandra Bullock/Jesse James cheating scandal for the last couple of days, but every time I see the picture of the mistress I cringe. The picture to the right is why.
People cheat. I get that. Only God is perfect, but how and why did he find her attractive? She's not even human anymore (except for the fact that she breathes). She's literally a walking billboard. Plus she's ugly. She claims to be 24 years old. She has to either be lying or she's had a really rough life.
I don't condone cheating, but Jesse James could have found someone way better to help him ruin his marriage. He does have money. He didn't have to hook up with a walking billboard that lives in the trailor park.
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Tuesday, March 23, 2010
Interesting Picture
I was looking at one of my friends blog when I came across these pictures. The clothing in the pictures were cool, but the women were creepy. See, when looking at the pictures I couldn't tell if the women were life-size barbies or men.
The picture on the left is one of them. So, what do you think? Life-size barbies or men?
Single But Horny
Well I'm not really horny, but in my browsing the web I did find this article on bossip.com that gives women advice on how to seduce their men. It's key advice is to remember that men are visual.
Something to Remember - let him watch you dress before work in the morning, before an evening event or before a date. Lay your clothes out on the bed and make sure the bra and panties are sexy and match. Lacy thigh high stockings are also a plus. Once you’re showered take your time to lotion your body. You know he’s going to stare so stare back! Don’t bust up the moment with words or asking “what?” He’s watching, that’s what you want him to do. Pose in the mirror in your underwear, slowly and gently work those thigh highs up your legs. While he’s loving watching you dress, it’ll be all he can think about until he gets to undress you!
Keep a Secret - try this for kicks and giggles! Go to to your novelty shop and grab a set of vibrating panties that come with a remote. The next time you go out with your man, throw them on and hand him the remote. They’re pocket-sized so he can do all the vibe and speed adjusting with a push of a button from his pocket. He’ll get a *ahem* rise out of being in control of your erogenous excitement and watching your reactions.
All Lights On - this is that night where you put your hair in a sexy up-do and throw some make up on. Keep it natural though, eyeliner, mascara and gloss. Grab him up and show him to the bedroom. Maybe keep the work clothes on or strip down to your underwear. Sit on the edge of the bed, spread your legs and pull him close to you by his belt loops. Unbutton, unzip and drop his pants. But here’s the deal, it’s all about the eye contact! Keep your eyes on him while you orally pleasure him. It’s all about the show and he loves to watch you so be enthusiastic.
Get Cleaned Up - invite him to watch and help you shower. *Again detail: take some time to shave and groom yourself before you invite him in on the fun. Shout for him to bring you a washcloth or your loofah that you can’t reach … whatever you need to do to get him in. He’ll be surprised to find you with the curtain/door pulled and a naked, wet and soapy you standing there lathering your body. Turn around and ask him to wash your back. Don’t be shocked if he decides to strip down and join you!
Get Off - this take some gonads, ladies. The element of surprise is always arousing. Catch him off guard the moment you walk through the door – give him a sweet, seducing glance, kick off your shoes and make your way towards the bedroom stripping your clothes off on your way. Trust and believe he’ll be curious enough to follow you. Get naked, lay across the bed and pleasure yourself. The mere fact that you had the guts to masturbate in front of him will have him wanting to watch. Since you’ve got his attention invite him to join you!
Okay ladies, these are very basic examples but you catch the drift! Men can visualize, very vividly, the fantasies they have featuring their woman! All you have to do is bring it to life! Have fun, be creative and, most of all, be daring! It’s healthy to step outside yourself a time or two!
Monday, March 22, 2010
When I Grow Up...
I want to be like Lady Gaga.
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Well that's a lie, but I recently read a blog that said Lady Gaga is more inspirational than Beyonce. The news shocked me, so I went out and invested to see if this was true. Well technically I pulled up some pictures of Lady Gaga to see what all I would find. Then I did the same for Beyonce. Here's the result.
I think the above is Lady Gaga. Below is what someone who absolutely adores her did to their dog.
It's weird, but some people treat their pets better than they treat their kids.
The above is Beyonce.
Honestly, after viewing the pictures I can't decide who is more inspirational. Lady Gaga inspires by portraying to the world that a bad girl image is okay to have. Beyonce, however, inspires by having a good girl image 90 percent of the time.
Karrine Steffans Wanna-Be
Sunday, March 21, 2010
School Lessons: Taking Back My Happiness
Lately life has continually intruded on my freedom. Life has tried to bring me down in the form of professors. Life has reminded me that there are more people wanting me to fail than to see me do good. Life has reminded me that my goals are not as easily reachable as I originally thought. Life has reminded me that getting caught up in the important aspects of life is so easy. Life has reminded me that you can get so caught up in the important aspects of life that you lose sight of the great person you are.
Well I'm defying life and taking back myself. Yes, I said myself. I'm finding who I am and what makes me happy again. Today, for example, I remembered that I like movies and plays and I tuned in to Tyler Perry's "Why Did I Get Married" on TNT. It was easy to relax since today is Sunday, but tomorrow will be harder. However, I plan to watch Tyler Perry's "Marriage Counselor." That movie always make me laugh. Then later on this week if life hasn't driven me over the edge again, I will attend poetry night somewhere. It's been too long since I've heard good poetry.
Oh, more importantly I will be taking pictures. No one can understand the love I have for my camera.
Saturday, March 20, 2010
OPRAH IS A...
5 star barbie and this is why.
5 Star barbies get sued and Oprah knows what getting sued feels like. She has gotten sued by a countless amount of people. The most recent lawsuit is coming from two of her fitness trainers who claim she did not pay them for their services.
I know what you're thinking. "Why Lashuntrice? Why put Oprah in the same category as people like Nicki Minaj?"
Well barbies care about their looks and Oprah would not need fitness trainers if she did not care about hers. Well, if Oprah really didn't pay them, she'll give them their money soon. They're only requesting $67,000. To most of us that's a lot of money, but for her it's only a penny.
Wednesday, March 17, 2010
How Was Your College Experience?
Tuesday, March 16, 2010
Monday, March 15, 2010
Shepreneur Magazine
"Don't get fooled into what success should look like. Create your own vision."- Shepreneur Magazine
Between Me And You
It's called "Between Me And You"
Sunday, March 14, 2010
I've Had Enough
Yesterday my roommate called herself giving me some advice. The advice was that I need a boyfriend. At first I wanted to get mad. What does she know about my love life? I did just meet her a little over a week ago. However, this poem I wrote a couple of months ago came to mind. I wrote this for your enjoyment so hope you like it.
So, as I was watching the Tiny and Toya show I decided to try and write a song. The words started flowing on the paper, but since I can't sing I decided to just leave it as a poem so check out my last poem called...
"I'VE HAD ENOUGH"
I've had enough
Oh, I've had enough
I want somebody to love
Really, I want somebody to love
You talk about your man
You talk about his touch
You talk about his kiss
You talk about his love
You say he’s nice to you
You say he’s right for you
You say he’s special
You say he’s the one
Yeah, I hear you talking about him
But I don’t want to hear it
Cause I’m lonely and…
I've had enough
For real, I've had enough
I want somebody to love
Really, I want somebody to love
Sitting up in my room
And watching The Kendra Show
Kendra and Hank used to be cute
But now I don’t like them no mo’
Cause they pull up feelings
Feelings that are slowly making me lose control
Got me thinking about having a special someone
Going with a man to the movies
Or going with him for a walk in the park
Maybe even holding his hand as we walk up and down the beach
Or even just chillin’ at home as we cuddle up
Oh, I know I sound messed up
But I blame it on Kendra and Hank
Cause before them I was just fine
I know you’re thinking
YEAH RIGHT
But that’s my truth
So couples I’m tired of seeing you
I want my own man
Yeah, I want my own man
Cause
I've had enough
Yeah, I've had enough
I want somebody to love
Can I have somebody to love?
8/11/2009
You're the first to read this poem on here so tell me what you think..
By the way the second season of "Kendra" premieres tonight at 10pm eastern on E!
School Lessons: Shake The Haters Off
Shake the haters off.
That's my school lesson of the week. I haven't used that phrase in years, but it's relevant. This is why. Since the beginning of 2009 I've seen:
*Grades so low I was ashamed to leave the classroom with those grades in my hand.
*Very destructive criticism (for a second I was starting to think that I had mapped out my college years all wrong).
*Loneliness. I found out what it felt like to always be surrounded by a lot of people and still feel alone. Actually I felt that feeling before. It just managed to manifest again.
*An exciting life. Okay, I have fun from time to time, but I'm always so wrapped up in what other people think that I forget to just enjoy myself.
With all that said I realized the problem was I worried too much about my haters. Someone did remind me recently that there are always going to be people who have some kind of criticism. After all, the only person you can fully please is yourself. So, my goal from now on is to shake the haters off and focus on pleasing the number one person is my life.
Now to shake the haters off screwed and chopped style:
Saturday, March 13, 2010
SyFy Did It Again
There's a movie on SyFy right now called "Sea Beast" and this movie has the strangest killer I've ever seen.
The thing about this killer is you can't see it before it kills you. However, you can hear it. Then when you do see it, it does not attack you. Instead it shoots out some stuff that paralyzes you. Then instead of it attacking you, it's babies jump out of it's back and eat you. Even more than that it looks like a dinosaur. All that really comes to my mind is WHY.
BUT it gets worse. Tonight SyFy has a movie coming on called "Dinoshark."
As one of my facebook friends would say... let the craziness marinate.
Kendra's E! True Hollywood Story
Recently I was watching television and I heard some shocking news.
Kendra's going to have an E! True Hollywood Story. It's supposed to premiere soon after her new show comes on this Sunday. As much as I love watching Kendra, I don't understand how there could be a biography made about her at this point. Let me break down why.
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Kendra grew up around an all American family. They supported her every move. That's good, but it doesn't make an interesting story. Then to add to it Kendra decided to pose for playboy. Then she went from posing for playboy to being one of Hugh Hefner's girlfriends. That's nasty but it's her truth. Then she and the rest of the girlfriends ended up with a show on E! just because they were Hugh Hefner's girlfriends. After years of being on television she married basketball player Hank Baskett and had his baby. Yeah, she went from one dream life to another.
Now that I think about it I want to watch her True Hollywood Story just to see how E! is going to make it interesting (or at least last one hour).
Friday, March 12, 2010
Breaking News
Sasha's dead and Honey Bee has just been born.
I was not going to post any blogs this week, but this could not be ignored. Lady Gaga has a new video out and Beyonce is in it. However, Beyonce is not using her alter ego Sasha. Instead she's being called Honey Bee. I don't know which alter ego name I like best as of yet, but the video is fierce.
Monday, March 8, 2010
Spring Break
Originally I was going to write about the Oscars last night. Of course I was going to focus on the ugly dresses of the night, because it would be wrong not to. However, because I've been stressed from school lately and it's my spring break, I'm going to take this week out and not write anything.
Don't feel sad though. New posts will be coming starting March 15, 2010.
Friday, March 5, 2010
Thursday, March 4, 2010
Being Inspired By Tananarive Due
Wednesday, March 3, 2010
Crazy But Creative
A few days ago I put up this picture of Nicki Minaj as my profile picture. I must admit when I first saw it I thought she looked like Shanaynay from Martin, so I was curious to see what others reactions would be. These are the responses I received.
Commenter:
She looks like one of those kids that put on a whole buncha mess and then look proud as hell when they say "I dressed myself!"...
Me:
LOL, she really does. I actually thought Shanaynay (however you spell that) when I first saw this.
Commenter:
Is that Nikki Minaj? I am dying laughing right now!
Commenter:
She looks like hot trash.
Commenter:
HAHA!!! She really does look like Shanaynay!!!!
While I agreed she looked crazy, I then tried to flip the picture into a positive by saying:
Although the odd thing is people talk bad about Nicki's look, but praise Lady Gaga's style. I don't quite understand that.
But then I received this response.
Commenter:
That's because they think Lady Gaga will eat their hearts. You know she looks like she is into a little Devil worship.
Even though I and others think Nicki Minaj's look is out of control, I must say she is growing on me. She has a unique sense of style and she's a very unique person. I think that's cool.
Tony Gaskins
nothing is more beautiful on a woman than the Natural. Your flaws make
you perfect. Love U!-- Tony Gaskins
Monday, March 1, 2010
I Can Relate To Kittie
On today's episode of Lets Talk About Pep each woman's love life started to come together. However Kittie was resistant to the man that wanted her.
She loved the way he was treating her. She even loved the carriage ride he took her on, but after a great time she still did not want to give him an exact answer.
Some people might think Kittie was wrong for her actions, but I can relate to her.
After being single for a while, it's easy to feel safer single. You're not risking getting your heart broken. Although you might be risking loneliness your feelings aren't being affected by anyone but you.
However, giving your heart to someone would mean risking having your feelings exploited. Well it could also mean having the sweetest person in your life too, but you never know until you go for it. At least that's how I feel.
I am glad that Kittie did not reject him.