LITTLE DICK NIGGA

A few days ago I read this note on fb. The note was about how women and men are switching roles now. It talked about how women
are now the ones taking men out on date, paying for the meal, etc. It talked about how men are now the ones waiting by the phone for the women to call and waiting for the women to comfort them.
Think about this real quick...

I was talking to my mom over Christmas break. I mentioned to her that I want to have one child, but I didn't mention marriage in that. She said it's better to have two parents raising a child rather than one. She said children gain so much more when they have both parents in their life.

Yesterday I watched the movie Not Easily Broken. In this movie the thing that stood out so much to me was the mother. The mother was so bitter to men she was teaching her daughter how to be bitter also. She was interfering in her daughter and son-in-law's relationship and it was becoming disastrous. The daughter was very independent although she was married. She was more into her job than she was her husband. She did not know how to cater to her husband and because of this she was pushing him away.

Today I watched the Marriage Counselor. In this movie the couples had to find their way back to their marriages. They were more focused on the little issues such as money, weight, and the outside world's opinion of their spouses. The counselor and her husband even lost sight. Her husband was trying to be a nurturer like society used to teach men how to be. But instead of nurturing her with love, he became more focused on trying to pay the bills and bring food into the house. The wife lost sight of the wedding vows she took and thought of her husband as boring, uncaring, and unnurturing. She turned her attention to another man for that affection she was missing.

While Not Easily Broken and Marriage Counselor are just movies they express what society is like. They show what couples are missing in their relationships and how to fix those problems. Only problem is too many people are ignoring these examples and switching roles.

Seems like the women are supposed to ask men out on dates. Women are supposed to pay for the dates. Women are supposed to call men. Women are supposed to be the dominant ones in the relationships. Some men would get frustrated reading this, but it's the truth.

While men want to feel in charge, I hear more and more single men say the are waiting on their future woman to come along. But wait a mintue... Doesn't the bible say man finds his wife. Not the other way around.

Even worst while many men want to feel in charge, I've also heard a lot of men say they feel okay with a woman paying for them. They feel okay with the woman paying for everything. That is not the way it is supposed be.

You may be wondering about the title. Well I titled this little dick nigga because when a man caters to a woman and makes her feel like a queen he is everything to that woman. But when a man does not take charge and treats that woman badly he is nothing but a "little dick nigga."

So, men get on your job and stop acting like "little dick nigga." Cater to your woman. Ask her out on dates. Make sure you are the one willing to pay. Hold her if you feel she needs to be held. Men it's not hard to tell if a woman needs to be held or not. Do whatever you have to do to be known as that womans' king.

Women, independence rules. Being able to work and know there is money in your account rules. Knowing that the money came from your hard work and dedication rules. But don't try to pay for every date you and your man go on. Let your man be a man. Cater to him and hold him.