Friday, March 27, 2009


In 1996 when the song Fantasy by Mariah Carey came out everyone was dancing to it. It had a great beat and a lot of the words spoke to single women everywhere. Plus, Mariah Carey has not sung one bad song so that also helped... The song was real life for single women everywhere. It was real for those women who had fall into love and then later fallen out of it and it was real for those women who had never experienced love..

Problem is then and now women are constantly looking for real love from men and not a fantasy. Women do everything to get men. Some women cook while others clean. Some women practice the art of shoning to get their men while others think that if they give a man all their money they will have those men for the rest of their lives. Women don't just come out of nowhere with this desire to want a man in their lives.

From the moment most little girls start growing up they are exposed to Barbie dolls and doll houses. They are told to watch movies such as Cinderella, Beauty and The Beast, Snow White, and The Little Mermaid. As they watch these movies and play with dolls they plan out how they are going to grow up, get married, and have lots of children. Women are taught from day one to go out and start a family. By the time a girl is eighteen she is anxious to find the man she will spend the rest of her life with.

On the other hand, according to experience and Steve Harvey men are not thinking like that. Harvey says men want to profess, protect, and provide for a woman but before that can get to that poin they have to know who they are, what they are good at, and what job title they have. Also, while men do want attention from women, when they are little it is not on their minds.

Question is if men are only thinking of their careers when they are young and women are focusing on the men of their dreams, how can the two have a successful relationshhip? My thoughts on this is the only successful relationship is the one that lasts until someone dies. There are no truly successful relationships because no one is perfect. Mistakes will always be made. Men and women will never agree on everything. We are raised to think differently by society. We are taught to learn how to deal with each other..well "more so" women are taught how to handle men.

But you'll know if your relationship is successful if you can tell your grand or even great grandkids how wonderful your marriage to your significant other who after so many years of marriage died....

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