(picture titled The Dance)
I usually don't like to use myself as an example, but there's this guy on my mind...This guy hasn't done much for me emotional wise. In fact, I don't even remember how I met this guy. I do remember the reason I started talking to him, but that is not important.
He's been in and out of my life for a while now...and unfortunately a pattern has been created. In the beginning I thought if it was easy for this guy to get into my life it would be easy to get him out....but evey once in a while he contacts me again and I find myself allowing him right back in my life...
Sounds stupid doesn't it, but I was reading this Love Facts guide on AOL today and there's a term for this...It's called
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FAMILIARITY
-This is settling for someone because you already know them and already have a history with them. Doesn't matter if that history is good or bad, but just the fact that you've known them for a while makes you want them around still.
Usually a person does this because they're feeling weak at the moment (perfect time for the past to intercept with the now), feeling emotional (the past always comes when your emotions are not all intact2), or just feeling lonely...
Women and men, don't fall for the familiar just because you feel you need attention (physically and emotionally). Be strong and give only those people who have the qualities you are looking for a chance...
Song for this is...
Emotional Rollercoaster by Vivian Green
copywritten by Lashuntrice
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