PERFECT STRANGER...

"If you stroke a man's dick you get him for one night, if you stroke his ego you get him for a lifetime..."-Halle Berry

This is one of my favorite quotes from Halle Berry's movie "Perfect Stranger." It's true. Women we need to make me feel good in other ways than sex in order to keep them, but....before we concentrate on making men feel good we need to make sure they make us feel good...

I got a secret for you all...
.
.
.
Women, most times we concentrate on keeping a man so much we neglect ourselves and when we neglect ourselves we allow men to neglect us also. We let them control us and treat us wrong, but we try to please them anyway...

WOMEN STOP DOING THAT...
When you meet a man make sure he can take you out to a nice dinner. Make sure that dinner is not at his house on the first, second, or third date.

Make sure that man can hold an intelligent conversation with you (intelligent as in it is not just about sex or sex is not even in the conversation at the time).

Yeah, make sure he can hold at least a 20 minute conversation without bringing up sex or at least if it comes up make sure you bring it up first.

Women, make sure a guy can chill with you. Chill as in make sure if he says he wants to come over and watch a movie the two of you actually watch a movie. Make sure if the two of you want to have a nice dinner at home, let that be an actual dinner..

Women, some of us do want to get down to sex, sex, sex, and if you do that is fine...but for those of us looking for more don't fall into the trap of pleasing a man who's not willing to please you in every way possible (every way you want) because if you do then you might as well be a perfect stranger to him...