Monday, January 26, 2015

#BigWomenBigLove Jessica and Her Dating Issues

Dating is an issue no matter what size a woman is, but according to this show on Lifetime women with a whole lot of weight on them struggle the most. The show is called Big Women: Big Love and I'm guessing because each woman has a lot of love deep down inside of them to give to some man. However, I advise you to not take any dating advice from these women; especially Jessica.

Although she lost a lot of weight, 100 pounds, she still looks like she's around 300 pounds. Don't tell her she's fat though. In almost every scene she refers to herself as skinny. In fact she doesn't like the other women on the show because they recognize how much they really weigh and they bond over it. Her confidence is on point though. She's so on point that in one of our first instances of seeing her she is on a date with a fine dude she went to high school with. She's there with all her glorious weight and the dude is there  with his 8-pack. They are on two different levels and he's way too shallow. She is shallow too, but she can't see why he is not interested in her.

In order to find out what her issue is Jessica goes to a seminar where other women are trying to find out why they can't find the perfect man for them. Jessica's confidence is too high for he seminar and she leaves with barely any advice. She does learn that she's controlling but will she utilize it?

Jessica is so blind to herself that she decides to give an ex-boyfriend a second chance. The reason they broke up is because he thought she was fat. Who goes back to someone that found that type of problem with them? You probably already know how their new date on national television went. In the midst of ending the date Jessica says she needs help getting up. Then it switches to the confessional where she refers to herself as "light as a feather now" because of her weight loss.

Initially I wanted to do a big summary of this show. However, it's more fun to break each woman down. The next woman I'll talk about is Jenn. Are you watching Big Women: Big Love. What do you think about Jessica? Would you date her?

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