Recently I had this conversation with a guy I met through the world wide web. We didn't meet in person. It was a phone conversation, the second one actually. We didn't even really know each other and at this point the only thing we knew is what each other preferred sexually. At least I had listened to everything he had said about his sexual interests. There were no plans to actually have sex because of one huge problem. We don't live in the same place. However, he didn't seem to care about our distance. Sex was on his mind and he was thinking of how it could happen. This is what he came up with.
Since it would be a minute before each of us would even be in the same area at the same time, he brainstormed. He thought hard. Then he finally said since we're not having sex now, we should get to know each other. It was such a backwards saying that it blew my mind. Shouldn't you get to know each other before having sex or have I had it wrong the whole time? Is this what women should expect from men now? I don't remember the last time a first conversation did not involve sex and yes, sex was talked about in the first conversation with his guy.
With that being said, I've been contemplating what exactly to expect from a man. It's not just about my morals and expectations. It's also about what a man is really going to offer me. Lil Boosie must have predicted my thoughts because he and Rich Homie Quan have a song explaining exactly what a man is. Some of the lyrics explain the mindset of the guy I was talking to. Check it out below.
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