Fantasia Lose To Win

Since Ashanti put me in my feelings, I decided to stay there for a while. Another new song that gets me into deep thought is Fantasia's Lose To Win. The words are too close to real life.

Fantasia's main problem has been trying to take care of others before dealing with how she feels. In recent interviews she has claimed she her attitude is changing. While I want to be happy, the reality is those of us that put others first will forever be on that path of struggling with putting our own happiness first. We care too much.