Wednesday, June 23, 2010

My "Tupac With A College Degree"

When looking for love it's easy to say what we don't  want and  hard to pin point the exact characteristics that we do want in our significant others. However, when we do express what we want we are told we are being unrealistic.

"Tupac With A College Degree"

I was watching the Tyra Show one day and the phrase "Tupac with a college degree" was bought up. An expert Tyra had on the show used the phrase while trying to describe the problem women have with finding good men. He said women want a man that can be hardcore and at the same time treat her like a queen and that's unrealistic.

It may be unrealistic, but I've also heard that the perfect gentlemen is unrealistic. I've heard that women do not really meet the man of the dreams. I've heard that if women really want to have a husband and kids they have to settle eventually. I don't know if any of this is true, but at 23 years of age I'm determined to continue to look (really wait) for my Tupac with a college degree.

Yesterday I heard this phrase on some television show..."Women settle for the man they can live with. Men settle for the woman they can't live without."

P.S. Maybe the man I end up with will be my Tupac with a college degree, or should I say the one no one thought existed. This quest for love is hard. Sometimes I really feel like I'm being played. The following song came on the radio earlier and I starting crying. 

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