Miss Sexual Intellectual: Women Are Difficult To Please
Women are difficult to please. Maybe it's because there are so many different options for us. When we go into stores several clothes scream "Buy Me" and when choosing restaurants once we've tasted good we're only looking for better. Maybe it's because men are willing to do whatever we want them to do. It's hard to make a choice when all five men are falling all over themselves to satisfy you. Maybe it's in our genetic make-up. We could all be pre-programmed to disagree, scream, shout, and go on our merry little ways. Maybe it's how we were raised. Somehow someone must have to all women that in order to succeed in life you must be difficult. This would be good, except it makes it hard on men.For example sexually all women can't be pleased the same way. Some women were taught to spread their legs and lay flat on their back and those same women get a thrill out of it. Some women like it nice and slow. These type of women need Usher, Boys II Men, or even Marvin Gaye to be playing in the background. They need candles burning and minimum dirty talk. Other women like to get kinkier in the bedroom. They don't mind being slapped around or getting cussed out. They don't mind getting on top, doing sideways positions, doing exercise positions, bringing food in the mix, and waking up the next morning with their bodies aching. After all, if the sex was good the night before the pain is worth it. But every man doesn't get that they can't approach every woman the same whether it's sex or relationships.
Every woman is different, so every man has to approach every woman different when it comes to getting into a relationship. In the beginning of relationships some women don't express their emotions right away. That doesn't mean that the women don't have emotions. It just means that they're not going to be extra clingy extra fast. That means that the man that was with the clingy woman in the past can't expect the next woman to wait by the phone. He has to learn his new woman. While some women may love affection, other women may love to never ever be touched. It's up to a man to learn which woman he can be extra affectionate and which one he can't.
It may sound difficult, but that's because men have to be prepared to deal with difficulty when they get into new relationships with women. They can't assume. Men also can't get sensitive when it comes to trying to figure a difficult woman out. Instead he has to go for the challenge, because it will be like that with every woman.
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