Miss Sexual Intellectual: The Best Sex Is When You Wait

I'm only guessing that they have perfect chemistry.

The best sex is when you wait. I waited a couple of years in between sexual encounters and I didn't even know why. Part of it was because I was single and did not want to come off as a sex addict (aka hoe). Most women get the label even if they've only had sex one time. Another reason was I wanted to  be in control, but it felt like the guys were in control at the time. So I stopped and waited. You all probably thought I was going to say something else. 

You thought I was going to preach abstinence, which is boring. The whole topic of abstinence really just promotes sex. Abstinence takes your hormones to a level you never thought it could reach. Abstinence is why white girls get caught having sex with animals and why white men get caught having sex with dead people. That is why I would never promote abstinence. I'd just say wait, which is not really the same thing. 

When you are abstinent you are saving yourself for an unknown future. When you wait, you are waiting on that person that can offer you the perfect mix of chemistry. That is why I waited. I was looking for perfect chemistry and I found it in my recent ex. While we shared lots of laughter and fun times, the sex is probably the most memorable. Well, it could have also been good because it was the month of love, February, but that's on another subject.

The reason I bring this up is because I was reading a blog post on http://lidia-anain.com and this girl said the best way to get rid of a man you don't like is to have sex with him. She believes men will not like it when women give up the goods too early and they'll quickly look for new pussy. While that's probably true, how does it benefit us? Sex is not going to be good if we are just giving it to every guy that asks us out on a date. It will only benefit the guy.

Therefore, the best sex is when you wait. Don't wait every couple of years to do it. The amount of time doesn't matter. I don't even think it was smart for me to wait that long and I will not be doing it again. However, wait until the chemistry is right. Don't spread your legs open because he wants you. Do it because you want him too.