Thursday, June 11, 2015

Why He Didn't Have To Worry About Baby Mama Drama #RomanceInTheSummer

He loved her at one point. He loved her so much that he didn't protect himself from her. He wanted her to experience all of him: his dreams, his reality, his intelligence, him physically. His physical needs were more important than anything else. His trust was high, so he did what he felt was best. He threw all caution to the wind and imagined creating a future with her.

Then again maybe he didn't imagine creating anything with her at all. He may not have been in love with her either. This guy was just open with revealing everything about himself and it just happened. This guy just woke up one day to the news that his girlfriend was pregnant. Then sometime between discovering that she was pregnant and her giving birth he started to question whether he was really the father.

He didn't have to worry about a paternity test though. The day his (ex) girlfriend gave birth another man also showed up thinking he was the father. It was more than likely a stressful situation. However, the baby came out still-born. For the woman, this was probably worse than anything else she could experience in life. She gave birth to a child that did not survive being inside of her. He, on the other hand, was very happy.

He called and I wanted him to open up to me about what had been going on in his life. This is the story he told. In his case by the due date, the woman that could have been the mother of his child turned out to be lying the whole time. However, one of my hugest fears is ending up in a situation where a man is questioning whether he is really the father of my unborn child. A woman does not have to be a cheater for a man to say that.